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Mark and I would like to thank you for visiting our blog. As we begin our journey towards parenthood we wanted to share our experiences with friends and family. I hope you enjoy following our journey of becoming a family.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Waiting is hard!

Yesterday, I was scheduled for my follow up ultrasound to check on my cervical length.  It was a long and tough two weeks of waiting.  It made enjoying the holidays difficult with the worry of preterm labor and possible bed rest in my future.  I definitely didn't sleep much Tuesday night and decided to pack a small bag just in case I was sent to the hospital to be monitored or for steroid shots to help develop the Blue Bean's lungs.  We arrived a few minutes before my appointment at noon yesterday.  I was somewhat anxious and just wanted to get to it but that wasn't in the cards.  Due to an emergency ahead of me, it was after 1:15 pm before I was called back.  It was a nerve racking wait for sure but worth the wait.

Of course we got to see Blue Bean moving around.  The ultrasound tech said he was an active guy - a real mover and shaker I say.  Blue Bean looked good.  He is still head down and his heart is pumping away at 130 beats per minute.  And what we had been waiting for...my cervix length was 2.1 down from 2.5.  The good news is that this was not a significant change and puts me on the edge of having a short cervix.  There was no real change in the funneling from the last ultrasound.

After the ultrasound, we met with the Maternal-Fetal Medicine doctor, Dr. Singh.  The verdict was to continue with restricted activity.  I was so excited no bed rest.  Dr. Sigh indicated that there is no real research that shows that strict bed rest actually helps prolong labor over modifying activity.  I have to continue to watch for signs of preterm labor.  Given my current cervical length and being at the beginning of my third trimester (28 weeks today) I have a 80% chance of carrying Blue Bean to full term (37 weeks).  As Dr. Singh said, "we want to keep baby cooking as long as we can." 

While I believe I have been experiencing contractions, they are weak, short and few and far between.  My understanding this is pretty normal.  Your uterus "practices" for labor throughout the pregnancy.  If I feel more than 5 in hour I am suppose to call in and see if the doctor wants to have my contractions monitored.

I definitely feel a great deal of relief after this ultrasound.  I have an appointment next Tuesday with my regular OB and will review the results with her but I don't anticipate any changes in recommendations.  Right before Christmas, I did a 3 hour glucose tolerance test (I failed the 1 hour glucose challenge screen).  The results came back that I do NOT have gestational diabetes which is also a relief.  One of my blood sugar levels came back abnormal so my OB is going to have me meet with a nutritionist.  The beginning of the new year is a great time to reevaluate your diet.

I think it is going to be a busy couple of weeks of pregnancy appointments.  OB appointment next week, childbirth classes next Saturday and Sunday, growth ultrasound in 2 weeks and nutritionist appointment to be scheduled.

I will keep you updated and have a Happy New Year!

Saturday, December 17, 2011

One Year Ago...

One year ago this week, I had a follow up appointment with my endocrinologist to review the routine test results he had ordered a month earlier.  It was at this appointment that the endocrinologist told me my ovaries were failing.  The doctor felt really bad that he just blurted it out after he realized I didn't have any children and that I was hoping to have children.  At the end of the appointment he told me, "you prove me wrong, next December come back waddling off that elevator pregnant."   Since I suffer from polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) I have always known it might be difficult to conceive and add to that failing ovaries and I felt my chances of conceiving were low. 

On Monday, I return to the endocrinologist and I can't wait to see the doctor and show that I did just as he asked...I proved him wrong.  I will be waddling off that elevator with a big smile on my face.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

25 Week Ultrasound Update


On Monday, December 12th I had a growth scan to check on Blue Bean’s progress at 25 weeks.  The plan is for me to have ultrasounds every 4-6 weeks to check on Blue Bean’s growth because I am on a beta blocker for migraine prevention.  A Fetal-Maternal doctor (high risk doctor) is the one that reviews the ultrasound as the tech take the images.  It is nice to know they are monitoring Blue Bean’s so closely and I will take any chance I get to see my little guy.  The ultrasound showed that Blue Bean is doing great.  He weighed 1lb 14oz and is measuring right on for growth and development.  He was kind of shy at first and wouldn’t show his face.  He had is little hands up in front of his face but eventually the ultrasound tech got some really nice profile pictures.  It is really cool that you can see the heart pumping away and all four chambers are visible.  His heartbeat was 137 beats per minute which is good, a little slower than it had been but still good.  I am very happy with his progress and hopes he continues to develop on track.

In addition to checking Blue Bean’s growth they also checked my cervix.  The doctor did find that my cervix is thinning (also referred to as shortening) and funneling.  At 25 weeks, my cervix should be between 3-5 cm in length.  My cervix length was around 2.5 cm. With a short cervix I have a risk of preterm labor (premature labor) and I need to watch closely for signs I may be in labor. The funneling means that the cervix is thinning from inside out (or that is at least how I understand it) and increase a risk of premature membrane rupture.  The doctor decided it was best for me to restrict my activity over the next 2 weeks and then have my cervical length rechecked.  Since it is finals week at work and then the students will be gone, I pretty much can manage to work from my desk most of the day.  No lifting anything over 10 lbs, no long periods of walking or being on my feet, and no stairs (I can go up and down once a day at home).  When I am at home I am lying down or sitting.  There is definitely some nervousness and worrying going on but I will feel better when I have my follow up ultrasound on 12/28.  Bed rest is a possibility in the future, we will just have to wait and see.  I am asking Santa to keep little Blue Bean warm and cozy in my uterus as long as possible.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Picking a name

Picking a name for Blue Bean would have been very easy if he was going to be a she.  Months before I was pregnant, I had said to Mark that if we have a girl I wanted to name her after strong women in our lives.  I knew immediately that I would want to name our daughter after my grandma Liptak and Mark's cousin Leigh.  Both are women who have amazing strength and have endured their share of life's little bumps but are truly fighters and women of great character.  My grandma goes by Laura but when I was doing genealogy work found out her given name is Leokadia (pronounced le-aw-KAHD-yah) which is Polish and means "bright and clear."  Using Leigh and Leokadia we decided on the name Lea Kadia Swafford.


Now picking a name for a baby boy has not been quite as easy.  Before we knew the gender of the baby we had gone through a number of names.  We were mostly looking at Irish/Gaelic names for a first name.  We knew the middle name would be James after my dad, so that was the easy part.  So once we found out we were having a boy we have focused on picking a first name.  So here are the names from the poll:


Connor - lover of dogs
Owen - young warrior
Patrick - nobleman
James - supplantar 


While we haven't come to a final decision, we have narrowed it down to either Owen or Patrick.  We will wait till the baby is born to decide on his name so at least there will be some surprise for everyone.